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April 23, 2008

Bloggy Giveaway: 4 copies of UNDERCOVER by Beth Kephart

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Bloggy Giveaways is hosting their quarterly giveaway carnival this week! There are already over 700 entries of fabulous prizes to win!

I'll be giving away FOUR (4) copies of the delightful young adult novel, UNDERCOVER, by National Book Award Nominee, Beth Kephart. To enter just leave me a comment by 5 PM (eastern) on Sunday April 27th (continental US residents only please). I'll draw the winners later that evening.

Here is the book's description:

Like a modern-day Cyrano de Bergerac, Elisa ghostwrites love notes for the boys in her school. But when Elisa falls for Theo Moses, things change fast. Theo asks for verses to court the lovely Lila—a girl known for her beauty, her popularity, and a cutting ability to remind Elisa that she has none of these. At home, Elisa's father, the one person she feels understands her, has left on an extended business trip. As the days grow shorter, Elisa worries that the increasingly urgent letters she sends her father won't bring him home. Like the undercover agent she feels she has become, Elisa retreats to a pond in the woods, where her talent for ice-skating gives her the confidence to come out from under cover and take center stage. But when Lila becomes jealous of Theo's friendship with Elisa, her revenge nearly destroys Elisa's ice-skating dreams and her plan to reunite her family.

I recently had the pleasure of reading UNDERCOVER. I'll admit that it had been quite a few years since I read a young adult novel, but I was instantly drawn into the characters through Elisa's eyes. I loved the way Elisa relates people (herself included) to nature. But even she realizes that human nature is more complex than that. The story is beautifully written and any adult or teen would certainly find it compelling. Mother-Daughter book clubs (both formal and informal) are growing in popularity and UNDERCOVER would be an excellent selection to experience together.

Beth Kephart was kind enough to answer a few interview questions regarding UNDERCOVER and her writing process:

What made you decide to try your hand at writing a young adult novel and how did this writing process differ from your previous work?

I find that every book has multiple beginnings. Having taught young writers for several years and having chaired the National Book Awards’ Young People’s Literature Award in 2001, I had a pretty good sense for what I felt worked in books for a certain segment of younger readers and for what seemed to be missing. But I’d been writing memoirs and was in the midst of writing a history/poetry book about a river when Laura Geringer of HarperCollins sent me a very beautiful letter asking if I’d consider writing a novel for young adults. I didn’t think I had what it took, but I loved Laura and her sensibility. Over the course of a year we’d talk by phone, and then one weekend she came to Philadelphia with her husband for a conference and took time out to meet me.

It was our conversation over breakfast that day that finally set UNDERCOVER in motion, for Laura asked a lot of questions about my own adolescence. I’d been an aspiring teen poet, I told her. I’d been a behind-the-scenes person. I had learned to skate on a pond and then took lessons and began to compete, particularly in interpretive free skating competitions. My dad was away a lot and I missed him. I often thought of myself as being invisible, unseen.

Something just happened. Something clicked. And on the train home that day I wrote the first ten pages of what became UNDERCOVER. Elisa has her antecedents in my own life, therefore. She sprung to life because of Laura’s questions. And she likely wouldn’t exist if I hadn’t written memoirs for adults that Laura had somehow found her way towards.

Elisa is such a beautiful character. I really enjoyed her ability to relate the people she encounters to nature; yet later she realizes they are even more complex than that. If you could picture her 15 years older, what would her life look like?

I’m so glad you liked Elisa, and I thank you for saying that you did. I wasn’t her—the beauty of fiction is that one transports the facts, idealizes them—but I understand her, I have lived, I often still live, within the range of her emotions. I know, therefore, who she grows up to be. At 30, she’s still in awe of nature. She’s still eager to find the right words to name feelings and things. She has built a life for herself, even a small reputation, but still there are times when she fights against a nagging sense of not being entirely seen. I’m not sure Elisa will ever entirely escape that feeling.

I found the “Book of Words” to be an intriguing concept and a great tool for writers of all ages and genres. Did you include this from personal experience?

I began my own book of words when I was in my twenties. I’d started a business at the age of 25—ghostwriting, copywriting, strategic and tactical marketing for architects and engineers—and I needed to expand my vocabulary. I needed to get porticos, cornices, all of that straight in my head.  So the book of words began as a book of architectural terms and phrases, but it soon began to hold quotes and descriptions and adjectives from almost anything that I was reading. It’s still here. I still add to it. It’s gray and battered, with a light blue spine.

Can we expect more young adult novels from you in the future, or is your writing taking you in a different direction?

My second novel for young adults, HOUSE OF DANCE, is due out in May of this year. This is a story of a 15 year old named Rosie, who is taking care of a dying grandfather during a summer in which her single mother has, in many ways, disappeared. Rosie seeks to give her grandfather one final gift, and this gift involves color, light, dance—the elements that will, she begins to understand, evoke his sweetest memories. I’m a ballroom dancer myself, and I’m excited about this book. Very.

Next May there will be a third, called NOTHING BUT GHOSTS, which is a romance and a mystery that takes place on the site of a reclusive gardener’s estate. The following May there will be a fourth, THE HEART IS NOT A SIZE, which concerns a mission trip that teens take to a squatter’s village in Mexico.

I’ve written a picture book for children, which is in the works. At the moment, I’m at work on an historical novel. Most of the time, though, I run a business with my husband, which still involves the ghosting and communications work that I began years ago. My husband is a designer. I continue to do the strategic work, the research, and the writing.

April 01, 2008

Book Review: Healthy Child Healthy World

Healthy_child_4 I have a new favorite color...GREEN!

When I first heard that MotherTalk was hosting a blog tour for Healthy Child Healthy World by Christopher Gavigan I knew this was a book I'd like to review. One of my goals this year is to form better habits that help us minimize our carbon footprint. The problem is that I've been confused with the tidbits of enviromental info I've heard and I needed more of a concrete guide to green living. With Healthy Child Healthy World that is what I got...and so much more!

I knew this book was about "green living" but I mistakenly assumed most of the information would center around our enviroment in a global sense. I wasn't prepared for so much of it to hit home-quite literally! Here I was hoping to learn about steps to take to make the world cleaner and safer. Little did I know that I'd learn so much about making our immediate environment (our home) cleaner, greener and safer and how that can directly affect us. 

The book is divided up in chapters discussing the various aspects of our everyday environment such as cleaning products, the foods we eat, caring for our lawns, the beauty products we use, and the purchases we make for our children like toys and clothes. Although parents and parents-to-be will benefit the most from this book, anyone who cares about the toxins in their home will get something out it.

One of the things I love best about this book is the way the material is presented. An item is evaluated (such as nail polish, car seats, cleaning products, or regular milk), an explanation is given regarding the potentially harmful enviromental factors, and then simple solutions or alternatives are suggested. You are left feeling aware, educated and empowered.

For me this book comes down to choices. We do have choices regarding the chemicals our families are exposed to. Gavigan is not an alarmist and does not come out and say that using typical cleaning products will directly result in devastating illnesses in our children. But what he does suggest is that there is so much that hasn't been tested, so why take that chance, especially when there are safe alternatives.

Also, when it comes to the solutions suggested in this book, such as buying organic food and using stainless steel water bottles, at first glance it may look like you'll blow your budget. This isn't the case if you also follow his other suggestions such as using cloth diapers, buying wooden toys that don't require batteries, and making your own cleaning products (he includes the recipes). When you implement these changes your spending simply shifts. Some things will cost your more, others will cost you less. It pretty much all evens out.

The book also features contributions from celebrities including Kate Hudson, Tom Hanks, Keri Russell, Brooke Shields, Courteney Cox, and Tobey Maguire. Some reviewers found this distracting, but I liked it. To me they are just examples of concerned parents trying to sift through the information like the rest of us and make they best choices they can. They acknowledged that it's a struggle at times to make the necessary changes, but even baby steps help and we all need to just do the best we can.

To say that this book is life-changing is an understatment. I immediately started making changes and will continue to blog about these under the catergory Green Living Mother here on this blog. I have been telling my friends and family about this book and naturally they ask to borrow it. Sorry, no can do! This book is not leaving my house. They'll just have to buy their own copy, or maybe I'll just buy it for them. Yes, it's that important!

To read other reviews of Healthy Child Healthy World check out the MotherTalk Blog Tour. To learn more about the Healthy Child Healthy World nonprofit organization check out their website at healthychild.org

January 22, 2008

DVD Review: Disney Princess Enchanted Tales

photo from Amazon.com

I was recently sent the Disney Princess Enchanted Tales: Follow Your Dreams DVD to review. I've been a big fan of Disney movies for many years and my kids are definitely following suit. I'll admit, though, that sometimes the spin-offs involving the same characters haven't been as good as the original movie. So I was a bit skeptical about this one.

Well it turns out to be a hit in my family :-) The DVD is really two separate tales in one. There is a story about Princess Aurora (my daughter's favorite) and a different one involving Princess Jasmine. With a total running time of 56 minutes the movie isn't long and has a "simple" feel to it. One of my favorite aspects is the slower pace of the storyline. I think this really helped my children focus on the good character-building messages (trust in yourself, the importance of hard work, and never giving up), which is what I liked best about the movie. My kids enjoyed seeing more of their favorite characters and the fun new songs. Their only complaint was that they wanted to watch more stories that involved the other Disney Princesses too. I explained that there may be more DVDs coming out with the other princesses later and they were satisfied with that answer.

So the Disney Princess Enchanted Tales: Follow Your Dreams DVD has been added to our collection of favorites and I'm sure will be viewed many times in the years to come.

MotherTalk's new feature

I'm a big fan of MotherTalk and they have some fun new features for 2008! Those same great books that the bloggers review now have an interactive online book club to go along with it so readers and writers can really connect :-)

With MotherTalk you can:

-check out the many blogger reviews collected in a nice and neat central location. With a few simple clicks of your mouse you can read what others are saying about the book (and check out some new blogs in the process).

-read useful background information on the book, interviews with the author, etc. The staff at MotherTalk really helps you get the inside scoop.

-feel confident that reading the book will be a risk-free investment of your time and money because you'll be "armed" with all of this helpful info.

-complete your reading adventure by participating in the online book club. No need to coordinate a babysitter and work around the schedule of others. Simply poor yourself a cup of coffee and participate in the book club when it works for you.

Later this week I'll be contributing to the MotherTalk book club discussion on Kelly Corrigan's memoir The Middle Place and posting my own review of the book here on my blog :-) 

January 01, 2008

Coming Soon....

I have a lot of new plans for this blog all set and ready to go for 2008. The new content includes:

-book reviews

-organization tips

-parenting advice

-suggestions for making time for yourself and others

-ideas for being charitable

-ways to live a faith-filled life

-Featured Resource Friday

Stay tuned....the new blogging format starts today :-)

November 28, 2007

Works For Me Wednesday: Diaper Bag Alternative

Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer hosts the Works For Me Wednesday carnival and here's my contribution:

With four young children I really don't have a free hand. Therefore lugging a big diaper bag containing supplies to meet all of their needs really is not an option. I think it was after child #2 that I wised up, got rid of the big diaper bag and came up with a different solution.

I now have a "keep-it-in-the-car-bin" that stays in the back of my van. It is a medium-sized under-the-bed type of storage container. Here are some of the items it holds:

  • a few diapers
  • wipes
  • a change of clothes for each child
  • a few disposable bibs
  • sippy cups
  • disposable cups
  • snacks, water bottles
  • a few books, matchbox cars, etc.
  • swim diapers (yep even in the winter in case we make an impromptu visit to the YMCA)
  • sunscreen
  • first aid items
  • a clean shirt for me

Now the clean shirt may sound odd, but it has come in handy. We were attending a baptism and at the luncheon afterwards my son (2 months at the time) had a diaper blow-out while I was holding him. Thankfully I was all set with a change of clothes for him AND a clean shirt for me, waiting in the back of the van. Of course the shirt didn't match my skirt, but it definitely beat the alternative!

In the spring and fall I bring the bin in the house, restock it, change out the outfits according to season, etc.

With this in the back of my van I rarely need to carry even my small diaper bag. I simply throw a baggie of wipes and a few diapers in my purse and head off to our destination; knowing that if there is any type of *emergency*, I have supplies waiting for me in the van :-)

November 07, 2007

WFMW-Backwards Day-Getting Kids to Pick Up the Pace

Wfmwsmall_2Today Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer added a little twist to Works-For-Me Wednesday. She's making it Backwards Day! Instead of posting a tidbit of advice we are blogging about an issue where WE need the advice.

So here's my questions: How do I get my 6 1/2-year-old and close to 5-year-old pick up the pace with their duties? We came up with a chart/list that details everything they are responsible for during the day (getting dressed, brushing their teeth, etc.) and a few chores (emptying the wastebaskets, unloading the dishwasher, etc). The list is working well and they are enthusiatic about checking the items off as the get them done. The problem is that they have a tendency to take FOREVER at times, especially the items that fall just before bed. The purpose of the list was to get them to be more responsible on their own and allow me to back off with the constant reminders ("now put your clothes in the basket", "take your dishes to the counter", etc.). But if they are being pokey I'm still on them to keep moving and get the job done. Any advice for getting my kids to pick up the pace??????

November 06, 2007

A Book A Week

There's no need to wait until Jan to start something new. I need to make reading for enjoyment a daily habit. So to help *push* me a little I'll be posting about it here :-) I'll feature a new book that I'm reading every week. Sometime the following week I'll do a brief review. There will be a mix of fiction and nonfiction. I'll have a running list of the book schedule in case you'd like to join me as I force myself to take more "me-time"! Also, recommendations are always welcome!!!

Below is the schedule for the next few weeks.

Nov 11: "Table for Eight: Raising a Large Family in a Small-Family World" by Meagan Francis

Nov 18: "Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everthing Across Italy, India and Indonesia" by Elizabeth Gilbert

Nov 25: "Twelve Ordinary Men: How the Master Shaped His Disciples for Greatness, and What He Wants to Do with You" by John MacArthur

Dec 2: "Writer Mama: How to Raise a Writing Career Alongside Your Kids" by Christina Katz (I've read this once, but the thing about books regarding a writing career is you can always learn even more by reading them again as your own career progresses.)

Dec 9: "A Thousand Splendid Suns" by Khaled Hosseini

Dec 16: "Five-Star Families: Moving Yours From Good to Great" by Carol Kuykendall

October 29, 2007

Fall, Y'all! Bloggy Giveaway!

Fallyall  Shannon at Rocks In My Dryer is doing it again!  Remember the Dog Days of Summer Giveaway with over 500 giveaways?!?! Well now it's time for the fall version!!! She's hosting this carnival on her bloggygiveaways.com blog.

As far as my giveaway...I'll picking three lucky winners to each receive a $5 Starbucks giftcard! The last time I gave away Starbucks giftcards because I had them but didn't think I'd want them since I didnn't drink coffee. But...since hundreds of you raved about Starbucks when you entered my giveaway I thought I better check it out. Now...I'm an official addict, making a Starbucks run at least a few times a week! (of course it is oh-so convenient when there's one in my grocery store :-)

So if you'd like to please your tastebuds with Starbucks just simply leave me a comment on this post this week (only enter once please). The comments close Friday, Nov 2nd at 10 PM. I'll randomly draw the winners and annouce them here Saturday morning. When leaving a comment make sure you have included your e-mail address or linked to your blog if you have once so I can contact you!

Check out the rest of the Fall, Y'all Bloggy Giveaways to enter to win what is sure to be hundreds of great giveaways!

ETA: and the winners are...Tabitha at 123Pizza's, Michelle at Heart of the Prairie, and Mom Chatter! Congrats to our winners! I'll be sending these out in a few days :-) Thanks to Shannon at BloggyGiveaways for hosting this fun carnival!

October 15, 2007

Conscious Consumer Meme

Megan at Having Enough tagged me for this Conscious Consumer Meme (fun, fun!-I haven't done one of these yet :-) Here's the description:

Here’s how it works: post the directions on your blog, tell everyone who tagged you, answer the questions, and tag five or more people. That’s it! And if you want to grab the graphic to put on your blog as well, feel free.

The purpose of this meme is to inspire some reflection about how we shop and what we purchase. The idea isn’t that consumption itself is somehow bad, but that we all could probably stand to put a little bit more thought into what we buy. And, of course, it’s supposed to be fun.

So here goes! Pick a recent shopping trip — for clothes, shoes, groceries, doesn’t matter. The only guideline is that it will be easier to play if you purchased at least a few things.

Now tell us, about your purchases:

1. What are you proud of?
2. What are you embarrassed by?
3. What do think you couldn’t live without?
4. What did you most enjoy purchasing?
5. What were you most tempted by? (This last one may or may not be an actual purchase

Okay, I'm not much of a shopper, but I did recently purchase a bunch of items online at Kohls (I heart Kohls!) Now what is truly rare is that all of my purchases were for MOI! Ideally I would have actually gone into the store and spent a few hours browsing, trying clothes on and buying what I really wanted, but those hours weren't showing up in my schedule. So I took advantage of the 30% code, spent enough to get free shipping and stayed up late "shopping." Here's my take on my purchases once they arrived:

1. What are you proud of? I'm proud that I was being very selective about what I decided to keep. Even if it meant making the trip to return some items I wasn't going to keep it unless I really loved it and it fulfilled my purpose of updating my wardrobe to look nicer and get me out of yoga pants on a daily basis.

2. What are you embarrassed by? Actually it's the way some items fit now compared to my pre-birthing four babies figure. I really don't need to lose weight, but I'm definitely feeling the need to tone some areas. The only good thing is that this kept me from keeping all of my purchases and my little spending spree didn't cost as much.

3. What do you think you couldn't live without? I thought I couldn't live without this really cute long plaid wool skirt. Not something I would normally buy but I loved how it looked in the ad. This was also the most expensive item. But when it turned out that I wasn't as crazy about it in person (the colors didn't appear the same) and I wasn't thrilled with the shirt options, I was fine with "letting it go."

4. What did you most enjoy purchasing? There were three other skirts that fell in the "sure I'll stick it in the cart and check them out" category, but I LOVED them in person.

5. What were you most tempted by? (This last one may or may not be an actual purchase!) More yoga pants ;-) But I did good...well, okay, I did buy one microfleece set, but in a bargain with myself I did purge a few older similar items from my closet :-)

Okay, I tag: Sparkly Like a Holiday, Owlhaven, Ramblings of a SAHM, April Showers, Motherhood...and My Crazy Life